South African actor Patrick Seleka, best known for his role as Kat in the television show Skeem Saam, made news in late 2023 when he revealed that he had emotionally abused his wife. In a candid video, he apologized for contributing to her depression, saying, “I should say, I have been very, very, very emotionally abusive, and it took me a while to see that.” It was a frank admission that required a lot of courage, especially in a world where vulnerability is not always welcomed.
However, it is evident that Patrick’s journey has involved more than just dealing with terrible memories. Since sharing his devastating findings, he appears to have turned a corner, focusing on healing and personal improvement. “The last year has been ideal for me.” It’s been fantastic, I must say. “Life has moved on, and I’m happy now,” he explained, pointing to his new partner, Tshepang. It’s encouraging to see him in a better place, embracing happiness and looking forward.
Patrick has been up to more than just that! He has also started his own cooking show, The Cook-A-Long, which is available on Netflix. That is a pivotal moment! While he was naturally apprehensive to discuss his previous relationship issues during interviews, he couldn’t hide his enthusiasm for his current project. “This is my first award nomination, and it’s one of the biggest nominations, and I’m proud,” he said of the show’s nomination for Best Lifestyle Programme at the South African Television and Film Awards (Safta). Talk about a reason to celebrate!
The show’s premise was inspired by his character on Skeem Saam, which depicted his growing interest for cooking. It’s interesting to see how he’s taken his acting career and turned it into a new enterprise that not only showcases a different talent but also encourages followers to enjoy cooking.
And if you thought he was coming to a cooking show, think again! Patrick is also getting into music as a DJ and is now working on an EP. “I don’t want to reveal too much about it until it’s ready, but it’s coming soon,” he told us. Patrick’s fans have a lot to look forward to.
While his history has been terrible, Patrick Seleka is obviously on the path to redemption, demonstrating that it is possible to overcome adversity and seek new passions. Whether it’s through his cooking program, music, or personal life, he’s discovered a way to reclaim and share happiness with the world. Let’s hope he keeps up this wonderful momentum and motivates others to do the same!